WHY YOU SHOULD SPEAK KINDLY OF OTHERS….

 

Why You Should Speak Kindly Of Others

By Michele Kearns ·

(Author’s Note:  This is a lesson from “The Happiness Project Page-A-Day Calendar” by Gretchen Rubin.  You will find periodic references to her calendar through-out the year, if I feel the subject for that day needs to be brought to your attention.)

A Golden Reason

It is obvious that you should speak well of other because of the Golden Rule.  You would not want them speaking bad about you, so why would you speak bad about them?

Another Reason

The other reason comes from Gretchen Rubin’s 2012 “The Happiness Project Page-A-Day Calendar for today 1/3 –

Spontaneous Trait Transference.

“In ‘spontaneous trait transference’ people spontaneously and unintentionally associate what you say about the qualities of other people with the qualities of you.  If you describe a colleague as hilarious, for example, the listener associates you with that quality.  Ever wonder why people want to kill the messenger who bring bad news?  Trait transference.”

 

Be real… Be you…!!!

Be real..Be you..

I am useful……      I am true….   I belong… I love being happy
I am somebody ……    I am worthy…  I am as good as you

I need no lies,  but your support

And what I am,  needs no excuses

I need no games , but your encouragement,  and your support

Show me the things you know,  I so want to learn

That calls for no drama, life is so short.

It’s one life and there’s no return and no deposit

One life so it’s time to open up your closet

I wish to  discover the real you and  beyond

I won’t judge you, just want to see the spark in your eyes

I won’t grumble, if you decide other wise

But, be real…,  be you…

After all I play my own deck, sometimes the aces some times the deuces

I  for sure need,  my little pride in my world, and I am not going to hide myself.

Try and  see things from a different angle. Every one has to bang his or her own drums.

Our paths will always cross some way or the other

Seeking someone to talk to, some one to trust,  to smile,  go wild and crazy

(Life is a bliss)  So much to discover and learn out there (One love. Peace)

FRIENDSHIP…

I SEE ONCE AGAIN HOW SOME PEOPLE ARE STILL CAUGHT UP ONLY IN THEMSELVES….AND THEY THINK THE WORLD REVOLVES AROUND THEM…

FRIENDSHIP….TO HAVE A FRIEND YOU MUST BE A FRIEND…..

PEOPLE WALK AROUND SO CAUGHT UP IN THEMSELVES AND THINK THAT SOMETHING IS WRONG WITH EVERYONE ELSE…..

IF YOU DONT HAVE ANY FRIENDS……THEN YOU MUST ASK
YOURSELF IS IT ME AM I THE PROBLEM ??…..WE HAVE BECOME SO JADED BY LIFE AND
SOCIETY AS A WHOLE  THAT WE HAVE BECOME A NATION OF
ASSOCIATES….

FRIENDSHIP IS SOMETHING TO BE VALUED AND NURTURED AND ONE MUST MAKE A EFFORT TO MAINTAIN IT……

NOW OF COURSE NOT EVERYONE IS WORTHY OF YOUR FRIENDSHIP
BUT THAT IS NOT A JUDGEMENT YOU CAN JUST MAKE WITHOUT THE PROPER INFORMATION
ABOUT THAT PERSON…

SO GATHER YOUR INFORMATION AND MAKE A INFORMED DECISION
AND NOT JUST  ONE THAT YOU PREJUDGED…..

WE AS HUMAN BEINGS CANNOT LIVE IN THE WORLD ALONE AND WE
ARE ALL CONNECTED THROUGH OUR CREATOR AND
CREATION……….

SO REMEMBER THAT YOU MUST CONNECT TO YOUR FELLOW HUMAN
BEING……