RELATIONSHIP~ “I am so fascinated by it, it almost seems like a mystery..!!

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn’t want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache. Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that’s not meant to be. Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then hell no, you can’t “be friends.” A friend wouldn’t mistreat a friend. Don’t settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don’t stay because you think “it will get better.” You’ll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things did not get better. The only person you can control in a relationship is you. Avoid men who’ve got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn’t marry them when he got them pregnant, Why would he treat you any differently? Always have your own set of friends separate from his. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later. You cannot change a man’s behavior. Change comes from within. Don’t EVER make him feel he is more important than you are…even if he has more education or a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less. Never let a man define who you are. Never borrow someone else’s man. If he cheated with you, he’ll cheat on you. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. All men are NOT dogs. You should not be the one doing all the bending, compromise is a two-way street. You need time to heal between relationships…there is nothing cute about baggage… deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship. You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you…a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals…look for someone complimentary…not supplementary. Dating is fun…even if he doesn’t turn out to be Mr.. Right. Make him miss you sometimes…when a man always knows where you are, and your always readily available to him- he takes it for granted. Don’t fully commit to a man who doesn’t give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others. Share this with other ladies….. You’ll make someone SMILE, another RETHINK her choices, and another woman PREPARE. They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them.

 

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15 thoughts on “RELATIONSHIP~ “I am so fascinated by it, it almost seems like a mystery..!!

  1. oh yes,its realy true,you are so expirience due to what you have seen,life as a whole and human being in general has been your story,women have have thier own redeams too,seamilar to men but each sexs has a roll to play.from geneses women are bound to lean on men,now adays things are changing that is why 8th of march every year is celebrated as womens day.more will be yours as days unfold

    • Dear, dunno if i learnt from my expirience or i deny to accept what i went through.. in life… in a nutshell.. this thing called Relationship will always be a mystery to me… True that it will always have its twists.. regardlesss.. but hey comeon some people, just bend it and get along with it,, i do sit and watch pairs, and oh see me how happy i am for them.. Welcome Glenda to my site.. bless your sweetheart

      • Thank you for sharing all these valuable points I will be sure to follow it. You are really an inspiration. When it come to men we should not just pray but know how to pray. When Jesus was fetched to be crucified just before that He taught the deciples how to pray the “Our Father” we should pray for a man before hand don’t wait for things to go wrong don’t have to attitude that something bad will not happen to you. We should act and pray against any addiction as the bible says the eyes of man will never be satisfied so be warned and pray, especially in a good marriage its an agreement which the energy hates so he will find many ways to attach. Don’t stress yourself with the threats or problems you can see and touch what about the power behind all of that evil. Be strong and make sure u are always close to God so He can reveal it all to you and fight your battles for you. Stay bless and don’t give up even men were made by God when they brake take them to their maker to fix. We can’t change men but. God can.

      • OH LORD… you nailed it right so right… Your comment is just so huge to heal the souls of many in this domain.. so full of wise words and more… PRAYER is the key… to all… regardless… I just wish things were not complicated.. and just so simple like LOVE itself… Thanks Glenda.. for your awesome thoughts..! God bless..!!

  2. Strong words Maureen and you are so right many of us make excuses for the men. Some even believe once they get married he will change. But as you so rightly said that change has to come from within. You can’t make him change.

    • Thanks dear, it is such a pity… i just wonder and ask myself, if things can’t go right without the headaches… yes they can… I think i leave it up to time…Thanks for reading

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