Life Begins At 40 – ‘Four Zero’

If life begins at 40…….

 

I’m not afraid of any Naughty deeds…….

 

With the tips of my fingers I can give you pleasurable chills for life, Special moments for Passion..

I’m love….  I’m divine…… I’m fun… I’m Patient

I can make you feel like a King if you make feel like a Queen. My kids think I’m simply cool.. the best Mom they can ever have.

 

 

My friends, call me a real Sweetheart , a Darling..

 

 

Sunshine and a real Friend to be around.. joke and have fun with..

To Me life has just begun.. I see things differently and I do appreciate them more than ever before, accepting them as they are.. So Happy, I got the chance to breathe, and stay alive…!!!

Life begins at 40..”four zero”

The AWFUL German LANGUAGE.. by Mark Twain

A person who has not studied German at all can have no idea what a difficult language it is. A usual sentence in a German newspaper, for example, is a quarter of a column long, and the verb always comes in the last line. Then you find out for the first time what the writer is really talking about.

Often they put the verb away over on the next page and sometimes, when they are in a hurry they go to press without getting to the verb at all..:) Then, of course, the reader has no idea what it is all about.

After the verb and before the end of a sentence there are quite a number of “haben, sind gewesen, gehabt, geworden, sein”.

I don’t know what they mean actually, I don’t think they really mean anything, they are a bit like a special signature – not really necessary, but pretty..

Every noun has a gender, and there is no system. In German a young lady has no sex, but a potato has. Horses are sexless, dogs are male, cats are female. A person’s mouth, fingers and feet are male, his nose, lips and hands are female and his hair, ears, eyes and heart have no sex at all..

Lots of German words are very long and really difficult for a foreign student to understand: ‘UNABHÄNGIGKEITSERKLÄRUNG’ or ‘STADTVERORDNETENVERSAMMLUNG’  are not words, they are alphabetical processions: you can see the banners and hear the music

Personal pronouns are specially difficult in the language. For example, the word ‘SIE’ means ‘YOU’ ‘SHE’ ‘HER’, ‘IT’, ‘THEY’ and ‘THEM’, sothis poor language has got only one little word of three letters for six different words in English.

When a German finds an adjective, he declines it. In our language we speak of our ‘good friend’ (which can also be meinen guten freundes’ for ‘of my good friends’, ‘meinem guten Freund’ for ‘to my good friend’ – and the plural is even more difficult. It is better to have no friends at all in Germany than to have all this trouble with them..

 

 

 

NO Turning BACK…!!

I sometimes  wonder where all that time, special moments went to..!!

I ll often stop and think;  reflecting on everything that’s happened to me in  the last few days. Months. Years.

Those things I’ve seen that scared me for life.. Growing up I’ve seen wrong and of course seen right.  I want to become something real and so right, do they understand am I understood..!!!! Regardless if I’m weak or not I’m going to stand tall.???  Can life be better..?? YES I know IT CAN, and WILL…..!!

 Before I make a decision I always think twice, even if at times, they all seem to shatter.. I take them all to mean something.. I do learn from every mistakes.. for they are my teachers… They say what can I do to help you feel better.. but, i ll better say,…hmmmm,  ”nothing”, because this is my life..

Sometimes, I just wanna hold on to them.. The question is, if I hold onto them too tightly how am I to move on? How am I to grow up and  LIVE MY LIFE? How am I to make decisions and take on responsibility if I’m  living in the past?
I guess time continues whether I want it to or not..!! So, I have decided to take on the journey of MY LIFE….

At this point of my life.. there is NO TURNING BACK..!!

Special thanks to my model Donna Axenkopf for the lovely picture

 

 

*- TIME -*

*Time* decides who you meet in your life…Your *heart* decides who you want in your life…but it’s your *behavior* that decides who stays in your life…

YES.. it is true.. TIME is the key to all.. the HEART the master of most… and the BEHAVIOR.. determines lots…

Complete Me…by Bernice Angoh (taken from her book, Lemonade street)

Bernice Angoh, author, novelist, song writer, Poet, and aspiring photographer

Complete Me

I don’t need you to complete me

I am already complete

I don’t need you to bring out the best in me

I’ve already done so,

I bring out the best in myself.

There is no amount of energy you ought to dispense

No work or obligation on your part

I don’t even need your love

I have enough of my own

to love you and to love myself

But if you must insist

let it be my token for you

love me

go ahead, do, that’s all I ask of you

Not because it’s what you must do, but because you can’t help it

Do not  become addicted to me

do not become codependent as most do

love me as though you may never have me

don’t pour your life into me

I wont get sucked into yours

Let’s share like we’re been doing

I will never ask you to be anything less or more, than you already are

You are enough

You will never belong to me, nor I, you

I cannot possess what I already have

I can only appreciate, nuture, love and respect it

And I do

I love you

When you are complete, you look for another complete person and you share.. The energy flows between you two. No one feels draubed by the other. That’s what constitutes a healthy relationship.

You may check her out at http://www.berniceangoh.com

Lemonade Street..

My Recreative thoughts by Humphrey Mosenge

There are infinite ways to show you I love you, our infrequent moments just won’t be enough for you to realize;

Top scientists feel strongly that this is true, but with the lack of language and tools they are left to just theorize.

I too feel the same but I leave it to be experienced, no such thing as beliefs just knowns and unknowns;

I get your ideas of love and of companionship, in my mind it is sown. All I have with you is just this moment, right here, holding you right now. All you want to do is think about it and judge whether its good or bad I don’t care, at this moment, its you I want. I am a being of focus and those infinite ways are beaming right at you.

Heart broken again…

This heart has been broken a million times, so this time ain’t so special babe!

My life’s journey is to seek enlightenment, to love everyone unconditionally!

You see it naive, because my love is childlike, seeing everything about you and loving it with all my heart.

I still love you and good luck in finding “the One”!

Life’s a gift, in it I choose Joy! I do not own it, I just be it!

Being receptive has alllowed me to be less critical, more understanding and happy!

For the most part, I accept eveything that happens to me as good. Even when I do not see it so, I have learnt to smile about it.

A million times plus this one actually had me laughing!

-Thanks Humphrey for sharing such a wonderful poem.. it’s very deep.. we all have gone through some kinda broken heart..!!

Fit For Fun..”2″ keeping fit got no age limit..

Physical...

It does not matter which way you choose to keep fit.. Whether it’s Pilates, Yoga to stretch and strengthen muscles and tendons..

Yoga

Physical activity is one of the best ways of boosting our health, such as jogging, long walks, workouts, dance, etc…

stretch

Another important thing to remeber is HEALTHY EATING .. What gets in must manifest itself in one way or the other. Some people are born lucky not to surfer the effects of certain food, while others  DO..

Try and find out what suits you best. it can be made enjoyable too… be it Vagan, Tropical treats or Gluten-Free

Stay fit,..Keep fit..love yourself..!!!

Thanks to my models Humphrey Mosenge. Therra Weinberg, Bernice Lakota, Cyril Sankara..